There is no certain way of knowing a young person is being bullied.  Some signs are:

 q       changes in behaviour

-         unwillingness to go to school

-         doing less well at school

-         giving up interests and hobbies

Remember there could be other reasons for these. 

q       Ask questions carefully, persistent questioning may be counter-productive.

-         take an interest in his/her friends

-         ask what happens at morning interval, lunchtime and on the way to and from school 

q       If you are still worried, share your concerns with the school.  At least the school will be alert to the possibility of a problem.